Gen Z Relationships: Psychiatrist on Student Attack & Toxic Love

A disturbing case of violence has unfolded at UIN Suska Riau, where Raihan Mufazzar, 21, allegedly attacked a fellow student, Faradilla Ayu Pramesti, 23, with a machete. The incident, which has garnered significant attention, is reportedly rooted in a rejected romantic advance. This event has prompted a discussion among mental health professionals regarding the understanding of relationships among Generation Z.

According to AKP Anggi Rian, Head of the Criminal Investigation Unit of the Pekanbaru Police, the perpetrator acted with premeditation. “Between the victim and the perpetrator, they knew each other. So the perpetrator intentionally planned to attack the victim,” he stated, as reported by detikSumut, on February 27, 2026.

Investigations at the Bina Widya Police Sector revealed the attack stemmed from a romantic dispute. The perpetrator was reportedly unable to accept the victim’s rejection.

“The preliminary motive is a rejected love. The perpetrator intentionally came from home to target the victim, which is why he brought a machete and a sword. Though, only the machete was used,” Anggi Rian explained.

A Generation’s Understanding of Relationships Under Scrutiny

In the wake of this incident, Dr. Lahargo Kembaren, a psychiatrist, has highlighted a concerning lack of understanding regarding healthy relationships within Generation Z. He notes that toxic relationships, often escalating to violence, injury, and even death, are increasingly prevalent among young people.

Dr. Lahargo attributes this to a lack of guidance and positive role models, leaving Gen Z without a clear framework for navigating relationships in a healthy manner.

“Generation Z grew up in the digital age, where relationships are often built through DMs, stories, and notifications. Intimacy can feel instant, but emotional bonding isn’t necessarily established,” Dr. Lahargo stated in a written statement received by detikcom, on March 1, 2026. “social pressure, fear of missing out (FOMO), and a culture of online validation make it difficult for many young people to distinguish between healthy and emotionally draining relationships. It’s not uncommon for young people today to be tied to toxic relationships with their partners.”